Faith Works 2-13-2026
Jeff Gill
A committee meeting that accomplished something
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"Nothing useful is ever accomplished at a church committee meeting."
I was present when a ministerial colleague made that comment, and after the service, I had to work my way over to him and say while his general point was understandable, I had an exception to tell him about… and now you.
Yes, many committee meetings in church life can be tedious and confusing and not always get much actual work done. For some people it's a social activity and they can't go on too long, and in other cases it's more about tradition and authority than it is achieving agreement and sharing vision. But when groups of people need to plan and prepare for actual activities, you're going to have committee meetings.
There's a different reason, though, why I have a soft spot in my heart for church committee meetings, especially on this Valentine's Day eve.
45 years ago, in February of 1981, a young woman I knew slightly named Eunice Hanebutt found out I was a member of the Disciples of Christ religious tradition; she was on an ecumenical campus ministry team that was planning a service with a speaker from that tradition — in fact, he was the president of the seminary I would attend four years later, T.J. Liggett.
"If you would just come next week to the worship committee meeting and see if you'd consider being the liturgist for that service next month?" Euny asked. I thought about it — I had never attended this campus ministry at the time, going home for worship or DJ'ing at my dorm radio station on Sunday mornings. Then I said "sure, I'll come."
The precise date is lost to the mists of time, but it was a Thursday night at 7 pm, and so either Feb. 12 or 19. I arrived at the building, and found my way through the halls to the library which had a conference table in it, and the campus minister at the head near the door, with half a dozen people around it extending towards the window, with an open seat near the other end. Next to the choir director.
Now, I knew the choir director slightly: she had co-directed a mass choir between my men's dorm and her women's dorm in something called "U-Sing" which was a campus-wise competition each spring between residence hall choruses and the Greek system's entries. In rehearsals, she was clear and confident; I had moved pianos around at her direction in a basement rec room, and sung with some forty-nine other voices as she led us through our two numbers.
So I sat down next to her; we re-introduced ourselves to each other, and I'm told I made some kind of lame joke, which made her laugh. Yes, reader, I am now married to that woman. Joyce Meredith has heard my lame jokes now for 45 years, and still (often) laughs at them. I was the liturgist that March, and in April we both went together on a church bus trip to Chicago to wander together the Museum of Science and Industry on a Saturday, sharing a seat on our way home back to Purdue that evening. We've been a couple ever since, married almost 41 of them.
And I'm reminded, too, of a line from Charles Williams he wrote to his new friend C.S. Lewis as events brought them together: "My admiration for the staff work of the Omnipotence rises every day." Because in the course of human events, Eunice Hanebutt Hayes, after marrying Brian Hayes, ended up living in Newark, Ohio. We run into each other at different moments, and I know we both are aware of the staff work God is still supervising.
So Happy Valentine's Day to Eunice and Brian, to Joyce, and to any of you wondering if church committee meetings ever accomplish anything. Sometimes, I assure you, they do!
Jeff Gill is a writer, storyteller, and preacher in central Ohio; he's often reminded of how God is in the oddest small details, along with the grand design. Tell him where you've run into this staff work at knapsack77@gmail.com, or follow @Knapsack on X.
Jeff Gill
A committee meeting that accomplished something
___
"Nothing useful is ever accomplished at a church committee meeting."
I was present when a ministerial colleague made that comment, and after the service, I had to work my way over to him and say while his general point was understandable, I had an exception to tell him about… and now you.
Yes, many committee meetings in church life can be tedious and confusing and not always get much actual work done. For some people it's a social activity and they can't go on too long, and in other cases it's more about tradition and authority than it is achieving agreement and sharing vision. But when groups of people need to plan and prepare for actual activities, you're going to have committee meetings.
There's a different reason, though, why I have a soft spot in my heart for church committee meetings, especially on this Valentine's Day eve.
45 years ago, in February of 1981, a young woman I knew slightly named Eunice Hanebutt found out I was a member of the Disciples of Christ religious tradition; she was on an ecumenical campus ministry team that was planning a service with a speaker from that tradition — in fact, he was the president of the seminary I would attend four years later, T.J. Liggett.
"If you would just come next week to the worship committee meeting and see if you'd consider being the liturgist for that service next month?" Euny asked. I thought about it — I had never attended this campus ministry at the time, going home for worship or DJ'ing at my dorm radio station on Sunday mornings. Then I said "sure, I'll come."
The precise date is lost to the mists of time, but it was a Thursday night at 7 pm, and so either Feb. 12 or 19. I arrived at the building, and found my way through the halls to the library which had a conference table in it, and the campus minister at the head near the door, with half a dozen people around it extending towards the window, with an open seat near the other end. Next to the choir director.
Now, I knew the choir director slightly: she had co-directed a mass choir between my men's dorm and her women's dorm in something called "U-Sing" which was a campus-wise competition each spring between residence hall choruses and the Greek system's entries. In rehearsals, she was clear and confident; I had moved pianos around at her direction in a basement rec room, and sung with some forty-nine other voices as she led us through our two numbers.
So I sat down next to her; we re-introduced ourselves to each other, and I'm told I made some kind of lame joke, which made her laugh. Yes, reader, I am now married to that woman. Joyce Meredith has heard my lame jokes now for 45 years, and still (often) laughs at them. I was the liturgist that March, and in April we both went together on a church bus trip to Chicago to wander together the Museum of Science and Industry on a Saturday, sharing a seat on our way home back to Purdue that evening. We've been a couple ever since, married almost 41 of them.
And I'm reminded, too, of a line from Charles Williams he wrote to his new friend C.S. Lewis as events brought them together: "My admiration for the staff work of the Omnipotence rises every day." Because in the course of human events, Eunice Hanebutt Hayes, after marrying Brian Hayes, ended up living in Newark, Ohio. We run into each other at different moments, and I know we both are aware of the staff work God is still supervising.
So Happy Valentine's Day to Eunice and Brian, to Joyce, and to any of you wondering if church committee meetings ever accomplish anything. Sometimes, I assure you, they do!
Jeff Gill is a writer, storyteller, and preacher in central Ohio; he's often reminded of how God is in the oddest small details, along with the grand design. Tell him where you've run into this staff work at knapsack77@gmail.com, or follow @Knapsack on X.
