Faith Works 5-29

Faith Works 5-29-10

Jeff Gill

 

Where Memorials Do Not Stand

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All eyes are watching the Gulf of Mexico, where 5,000 feet below the sunny surface of the water a darker gush blooms in the deeper gloom.

 

Perhaps by the time you read this, the broken wellhead will be capped. Perhaps. The stain of oil across the Gulf will still be poised, sliding, smearing along the coasts.

 

With the larger ecological crisis, a more intimate disaster is still spreading through at least eleven families, the relatives – wives, children, friends, parents – of the men who died early in the disaster that ultimately overturned the semi-submersible drilling rig.

 

Over a hundred other men escaped, and were rescued; something around 75 other platforms dot the Gulf of Mexico, each with their own hundred or hundreds of crew watching nervously, and their families in turn wondering anxiously how this story will turn out.

 

Each time we turn a car ignition or flip on an electrical switch, we are participants in the pressures that led to this extreme blowout in unimaginable conditions of pressure and inaccessibility, all because of the economic hunger for cheap energy.

 

Which of course is not; not cheap, that is, when the entire cost is considered.

 

This is Memorial Day weekend, and the many processions and ceremonies rightly recall us to honor those who have died in our nation's service, beginning from a Civil War era commemoration and extending now to every conflict from the country's beginning to those battles now fought in Afghanistan.

 

There is another way that people die serving their fellow citizens, and that is in a different sort of uniform, but in a conflict with the elements and opposition and resistance almost intentional in its threat. This Memorial Day, I'd like to build a bridge to the roots of Father's Day, still a few weeks away but technically 100 years old in 2010.

 

The best known origin of Father's Day, now the third Sunday in June since Lyndon Johnson affirmed and Richard Nixon proclaimed it as an official holiday, goes back to Spokane, Washington, and a woman who wanted to honor her father, a widower pastor who raised his six children alone after his wife died young; her thought was to place a commemoration on the calendar for all fathers.

 

There's a further connection back to the end of June in 1908, when plans were made at Williams Memorial Methodist Church in Fairmont, West Virginia (now Central UMC), to pair an observance to honor fathers the same way, the month before, Andrews Methodist Church up the road in Grafton had begun to honor mothers on the second Sunday in May.

 

There was an added poignancy to the effort to remember fathers in the spring of 1908. Just a few months earlier, on December 6, 1907, the nearby Monongah Mine had exploded, killing at least 361 men, over 250 of them fathers themselves. Some historians believe that due to intentionally incomplete record keeping, the actual death toll could have been hundreds more, but at least that many are documented and confirmed. There are a few old pictures of streets in the mining settlement of Monongah, and near the downtown courthouse in Fairmont, where from sidewalk to sidewalk, there are coffins packed tight eight abreast, each with a miner inside. The sidewalks are packed with women and children, scanning the faces, looking for their lost.

 

It is in that sense of memorial that Father's Day began, honoring those who work to feed their families, who risk their lives to build up a home, and whose labors make all our lives easier. Spokane got the word out a little more effectively, but the West Virginia roots go a little deeper. Today we recall the miners who died not so very long ago in southern West Virginia, where mines still explode as coal is pried from the depths, and the eleven rig workers whose remains may never be found from the Gulf disaster.

 

Those, too, died serving not only their own families, but their fellow citizens, doing work that we depend upon, whether we realize it or not. Somewhere between Memorial Day, and this centennial Father's Day, and summer's end with Labor Day, we have a chance to recall and remember and realize what some fathers have to do to feed their children and fuel our way of life.

 

In those realizations, we also have a chance to reflect on what we might do together to lessen those risks, to care for those left behind when those risks must be run, and how to live lives that are less dependent on others running such risks on our behalf.

 

Jeff Gill is a writer, storyteller, and supply preacher around central Ohio; he was proud to serve as a pastor just up the hill from the site of the Monongah Miners Memorial some years ago (not in 1907). Tell him about your father at knapsack77@gmail.com or follow Knapsack @Twitter.